My partner and I run up against a little wall this time of year. You see, we refuse to tell our sweet boys that Santa is real, because, well, he's not.
So, when an incredible (and upcoming) Appleseed teacher sent me the link to this impactful article and video, I just HAD to take the leap.
You see, my partner and I recall our own deep disappointment from when in our youth, we ourselves learned that Santa was a sham. We also feel uncomfortable reiterating the bribery tactics that go along with Santa to our precious children.
And yet we find it paramount to not crush our boys' spirits, imaginations, or their precious, innocent belief in this magical man.
Do you feel the same way? (Seriously, I'd love to know.)
So what does this look like in our home? Well, we have told our oldest Santa isn't real, but the brilliant little boy just goes on believing anyway. Because, I think, it's natural for him. But we also have talked a ton together about who this Santa guy was and how he came about to begin with. We emphasize that he is mystical and magical, something that doesn't need to be fully understood. We say the spirit of St. Nicholas inspires us to share our wealth (love, money, and more) with those around us. We also talk a lot about how Christmas customs look very different all over the world, and how Santa's name even changes from culture to culture.
And so, after wondering for 5 years if it's possible to remain truthful, and at the same time not crush our children's beautiful, innocent spirits, I now believe we can. Santa is real and also really isn't.
We need not take on all the unhealthy patterns of the holidays. Here's to a conscious holiday where our children are truly honoured and celebrated--their wild little spirits and all.
The very happiest of holidays to you and your honourable children,
~Megan